Beyond Wishin’ and Hopin’

What Used to Be By the time you get to about 40, you start seeing what everyone who went before you has already warned you about. Things start repeating. People who vowed to never, ever be like their father are looking in the mirror at his “spitting image.” People,...

From Purging to Pausing

If we have a home with a yard, we may want to cut away the underbrush when bushes are overgrown and choking off the new life. We cut back the trees at the end of the summer to allow a fuller expression of their beauty the next year. We do a clean sweep of the lawn...

A Need to “No”

A Need to “No” ~ We regularly encounter things in our lives that seem really hard to do. Rising to a challenge that seems insurmountable, coping with an unwanted diagnosis, committing to important lifestyle changes, and saying goodbye to someone we care...

Safe Harbor

Essays Skating Along One of the biggest things that drew me to becoming a counselor, was an interest in hearing truth. Read more. Taking Stock I don’t know about you, but I really feel for those hard-working people at our local grocery store on a Saturday. Read more....

Smile

Email Brain Gym ~ I have this friend who shall remain nameless in this essay. He is the undisputed master of the terse reply. At least in texts and emails. He excels at the one-word answer and has taken to new heights the less-than-complete sentence.  I sometimes...